By LiveTalk On Oct 9, 2019

Ladies, in today’s world, love is not easy. Is it just us, or are men becoming harder and harder to read? Finding a man takes a very complicated balance of luck, flirting, and emotional intelligence. It’s also very difficult to know whether a guy should be taken seriously, or if he’s just trying to get in our pants. Luckily, men who are seeking out a relationship on a chat line are (hopefully) past the ‘get in the pants’ phase. Chat lines are usually for people looking for love, unless it’s a purely sex chat line. Chat line men are just as nervous as you are, if not more nervous, and probably tired of the dating scene in which women don’t want to take them seriously. So, they call in hoping to find the woman of their dreams. Is that you? Despite the fact that these guys are probably serious, it doesn’t make them any easier to read. In fact, it’s probably more difficult due to the lack of visual cues to play off of. But, don’t worry! We’ve come up with the tips and tricks you can use to score an amazing man, and make him fall head over heels in love. The greeting, chatting and flirting, and eventual real-life dating are all components of starting a relationship that will last!



The Greeting

Think of the chat line greeting like the first time your eyes meet that cutie from across the bar. It needs to be sexy enough to catch his attention, but not so sexy that you imply that you’re DTF and that’s about it. As we know, men will jump on the DTF very quickly; however, they leave it behind even faster. It’s tough finding that perfect balance between sultry and sweet. You’ll want to think of it as a tiny commercial for your personality, and yet you also want to make sure you sound very genuine. Obviously, it’s no easy feat. First, introduce yourself and describe your dating style in a subdued (but bubbly) voice. Then, describe your physical looks. At the end of your greeting, you’ll want to introduce a call-to-action. What’s a CTA? It’s a really nerdy way of getting someone to respond to your greeting by telling them to (pretty simple). Here’s an example of a great chatline greeting that is both flirty and implies that she is looking for something serious:

“Hi! My name is Jessica. I’m 25 and looking for someone fun who can be my partner-in-crime. I love cozy nights on the couch as much as I love adventurous dates! I’m a blondie who used to be a pretty serious dancer. I’m also tall and slim! If I sound like your cup of tea, give me a call. I can’t wait to get to know you.”


[Looking for something similar? Read How To Be Yourself On a Chat Line]


The Chatting and Flirting

Some women are excellent flirts, but it’s not always easy! The flirting and chatting is something that will evolve over time as you get to know your guy. However, there are definitely some things you should keep in mind. First, you’ll want to figure out if this guy is even for you. If he seems awkward or shy, give him a chance to warm up. However, if he comes off as a total a-hole, give him the boot. If he tries to make the conversation overtly sexual, kindly let him know that you are looking for something more than just sex. If he’s cool with it, he might be a great catch. You simply need to set the boundaries. But, do keep the conversation light. Allow some small-talk to drive the conversation before getting into the serious stuff. Ask questions and answer his! This may sound silly, but giggling and laughing when inappropriate is very important. It’s something that feels borderline tangible and contagious, and those are things that need to be projected over the phone due to the lack of physicality of the ‘date.’ Keep it sexy without making it sexual. By that, we mean allude to sexy things (perhaps you need to give him a call back because you desperately need a steamy shower), but don’t make it about sex (as in, don’t tell him you’ve got your vibrator on stand-by, unless you aren’t looking for something serious).


Meeting in Real Life

When it finally comes time to meet in person for the first time, make sure you are looking your best. Think about it, this guy has been imagining the real you. He’s hoping that all his dreams will come true (as are you). Sadly, people in general tend to imagine things as so much greater than reality. We’re all guilty of it. You don’t need to go overboard with the makeup, but go ahead and get a blowout. Get your nails done! Do what you need to do to feel like your most confident self. Confidence overrides all doubt that may creep in once that ‘ideal’ fantasy is broken upon the real life meeting. Consider it from the other angle, in which you meet the guy and he isn’t 100% the Zeus you imagined. If he’s confident and cool, it won’t matter to you at all. Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy, but don’t give away all the goods! We fully support a girl sexing it up, we simply suggest to tone it down for the first meeting. If that first real date goes well, make sure to end it by setting up a time to meet again! It’s not going to be easy, but it’s probably a good idea to not sleep with the guy on the first date. The relationship (so far) has been built on mystery, so keep it around for a little while until you know it’s the right time!

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